First Dates: What Not To Do, In Order To Catch The Attention Of Women. - A Fantastic Guide For More Information

Let's talk about the topic of attracting women. I frequently get questions about how to attract women, or what to do in order to attract women.

A typical concern that guys have is how to steer clear of making those significant mistakes on the first date that prevents ever enjoying a second date or developing a sexual relationship (rather than a friendship). I'll discuss a number of them in this post.

Well, there are several mistakes a man can make. Allow me to summarize the most common ones here. The largest mistakes guys make on first dates are:

1) Talking about themselves too much. Trying to be interesting instead of interested.

2) Not asking women questions and not listening enough.

3) Focusing a lot on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.

4) Not employing subtleties enough (What a woman understands)

5) Not developing sexual flow or interest.

6) Not creating future. (A relationship is dependent on future.)

The first mistake that most guys make is that they go on the first date and talk all about themselves, sort of strut around telling the girl that he has got this car, and he's got this career and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is a good catch.

What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that's not going to be able to take care of her at all, because he is not interested in her and doesn't listen to what she wants to state. A bad relationship prospect.

Another way of saying it is that guys try to be interesting. They figure they need to be interesting for a girl to be interested in them. Sorry guys, but it fails that way. You have to be enthusiastic about the girl, not interesting to obtain her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It's hilarious! They are both so busy trying to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be considering the other.

If you don't know what I am discussing, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is keen on you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she really is, etc, and all kinds of other interesting issues.

Interesting leads to a lot of rejections and "platonic" friendships by the way. Girls will be friends with a guy who is really interesting. Why? Girls enjoy being amused and entertained. Interesting men are kind of like children to them. A source of non-sexual amusement and pleasure.

That's all we have room to talk about here, but you will get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.

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