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Learn How To Meet Girls
You know, men ask me about " relationships " and "how to meet women " and equivalent things incessantly .
But the correctness of the matter for all of these sort of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better recommendations than good old "experience".
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to meet women?"
You get experience any way you can. Go anyplace there are lots of women and just practice. Don't worry if you are effective. Just practice and get the experience yourself. Sooner or later you will learn on your own and you will start getting dates. Yes that's right - no matter how unsightly, goofy, poor or old you are. If you just practice you will start getting dates.
And when you start getting dates. Then date, date, date, date, date!
It is usually known "multi" or serial dating.
I guess I should clarify. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sanely selecting a partner.
And I am not talking about guys who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and frequent interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
They said: "Don't get very serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯
Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.
Most of us adults never truly followed good old mom and dad's advice. We alternatively met someone we kind of liked and connected with them and ignored the rest.
Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.
Regrettably, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also the fact is that most people ordinarily continue this pattern of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and in the final analysis it leads to depression in relationships, and a failure to comprehend the opposite sex.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was precisely right for us.
Most of us didn't even comprehend our own personality and what what would be a good match for us. We founded our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.
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